Tuesday, September 1, 2015

Friend Speak workers training notes

(For those of you who haven't had chance to go through the training before you read with your readers, you may find this helpful. This is from the training session that David gave to the FS workers in January 2010)


Our Materials


We have English conversations based on texts of scripture in the belief that it will produce faith in the heart of an unbeliever.

Luke – its purpose… 

Acts – its purpose… 

Good News – its purpose… 

In the Beginning – its purpose… 


Approach



1.  The Word is the teacher and We are the illustration 

2.  We share Jesus and Share ourselves 

3.  A friendly relationship is more productive than a student/teacher relationship. 


How does this kind of strategy help you as the worker?

  • Less pressure to produce results yourself
  • Less pressure to know all the answers to all the questions.
  • People discover Jesus through God’s revelation itself.

 


Important Principles to Remember 


Since the Word is the teacher, what are the most important actions for us to take as the worker?

  1. Non-Confrontational
  2. Do whatever it takes to keep them coming back
  3. Focus
  4. Simplicity
  5. Socialize


How to Prepare for a Reading Session


  1. Pray 
  2. Prepare
  3. Read
  4. Formulate
  5. Write


Typical Reading Session



Your conversation should be one hour.  The first 10-15 minutes of a reading session usually begins with friendly conversation: “What have you been doing today?”.  There should be 40-45 minutes on the lesson itself.  We suggest doing no more than one workbook lesson per session.  Even if the reader’s English is very good, their comprehension of the spiritual realities described by the text will not necessarily be as good.  


Reading Techniques


Before you can have a conversation about a story, you must make sure your reader understands all the words that compose the story.  


  • Have them read to you.
  • Have them read after you.
  • Have the reader tell what happened in his/her own words.

 Asking Questions



·         Use open ended challenging questions to begin.

·         Who, what, when, where, why

·         Use the method of “pursuit”


The way to continue the discussion is to formulate a challenging open-ended first question and then use the answer to spontaneously form another follow-up question. If the reader asks you a difficult question, you don't have to have all the answers right away, all you need to do is to say, "That's a great question! Let me do some research and get it back to you next week!" ... then do your research!


A – Luke was writing a book.

Q – What kind of book was Luke writing?


A – Luke was writing a history book.

Q – Why do you think he was writing history?


A – Because other people had tried, and it says he studied carefully to write another book.

Q – How does one go about writing a history book?


A – They gather facts from first reports or writings.

Q – What is the difference between a history and other kinds of books – say, fairy tales?


Non-Confrontational Approach



People are not going to be in full agreement with you or the Bible.  How do you 1) keep them coming back, and 2) keep them reading the Bible?

 


Correcting Wrong Conclusions



Nothing scares a worker more than for her reader to begin to draw wrong conclusions.  If the reader departs from conclusions which are supported by scripture, what must one do?  First, be patient.  Faith builds slowly.   Be courteous of your reader’s opinions.  Know that he does not have to have correct conclusions after every lesson.  Note, however, that there are techniques that you may use to guide him to understanding, if not now, later.


  • Ask for clarification 
  • Finger on another verse – ask them a question that reveals the truth.
  • ·        If still wrong summarize their understanding.  Do not argue.

  

Doing Whatever It Takes to Keep Them Coming Back


  1. Your reader does not want to use the workbook, what do you do?
  2. Your reader has exceptional English skills, what do you do?
  3. Your reader wants to bring a friend and read together, what do you do?


Review of FriendSpeak Teaching Techniques


Don’t forget your purpose:  to share yourself and to share the story of Jesus.

  • Be open minded.  Learn from your reader.
  • Guide, don’t drag your reader.
  • Stimulate the reader’s thinking
  • Listen!
  • Care about your reader.
  • Summarize
  • Conclude by repeating what the reader has said.
  • Pray before each session.
  • Prepare
  • Limit conversation session to 45 minutes.
  • Always be there for your reader.
  • Introduce him to others.
  • Use questions, not statements.
  • Use open-ended questions, not yes/no questions.
  • Let one question naturally lead to the next.
  • Use What, Why, How to ask questions.
  • Don’t be judgemental; affirm your reader.
  • To correct a wrong conclusion:
    • Ask for clarification
    • Refer to text to reveal inaccuracy
    • Summarize their understanding
  • You do not have to have agreement to continue

Things to Remember as I Plant Seeds



Prayer

The Lord is with you and the Spirit will help you speak.  Spend time in prayer that you may be open to his help.  Pray for each reader by name.


Preparation


Study your lessons before you go to read with someone.  Read the complete story from the Bible, create your questions to promote discussion and conversation, and develop your style of teaching.  Have a plan for each reading session before you start, but be flexible.


Remember!


They probably do not know anything about the Bible.

The are bound by their past and culture

Most people who believe and practice atheism do not really understand it.

Things that they do not know:  There is an Old and New Testament and a personal relationship with God is possible.

You must be patient, slow, and not expect too much too soon.

They speak a different language.  This means that they do not fully understand everything that you say.


Be interested in the other person.

If you talk more than they do, you are probably talking too much.

Be an attentive listener.  Try not to think about what you are going to say next.

Partner to partner, not teacher to student.


Don’t forget why you are doing this!

Pray that you will grow to love and like each other.

Remember that you may be the first believer this person has ever met.

Seed thoughts?
(Paste the seed thoughts and related questions in the column next to the text)

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